I don’t typically read books written by celebrities, on principle. I spent nearly 4 years and tens of thousands of dollars to receive a piece of paper stating I have mastered the English language. I may still have to spend thousands hours more to be deemed worthy of publishing. So, I find it unfair that any Polizzi, Conrad, or Duff can publish a novel and make money simply because they already have money.
This passionate resistance is why it took over a year for me to succumb to the curiosity and peer pressure to read Tina Fey’s memoir/self-help guide/laugh factory, Bossypants. Sometimes you have to get off your high horse to pan for gold. I’m glad I made the dismount for this gem.
This book is full of little crumbs of hilarity laced with wisdom where you’d least expect it. Bossypants follows in the fashion of Fey’s screenplay for Mean Girls. It brings attention to some ugly realities of being female, and then flips them upside down so we can laugh at them and at ourselves. When it comes to being a lady boss, Tina demands her peers take her seriously without doing so herself.
Here are 5 things I already kind of knew but for which I found affirmation in Bossypants:
2. Career advancement is not an election for homecoming queen. You don’t automatically lose if another girl wins. “People are going to try to trick you. To make you feel like you are in competition with one another… Don't be fooled. You're not in competition with other women. You're in competition with everyone.”
3. “Do your thing and don’t care if they like it.” If Tina Fey cried every time someone told her women just aren’t funny or that she is an overrated troll, she wouldn’t have the time to be the Emmy award-winning, money-making BOSS that she is.
4. Going home for Christmas is a good way to stay down-to-earth. Fey and her family make an annual pilgrimage from Philadelphia to Youngstown every year. They have a sweet Christmas, complete with a senile, chain-smoking Mamaw, and “hugs and kisses and pies and soup and ham and biscuits…”
5. Age is nothing but a number. Turning 40 (or 25, or 30) is only enormous if you allow it to be. What turning 40 means to Tina Fey: “I need to take my pants off as soon as I get home. I didn’t used to have to do that. But now I do. “
Oh, and, although you may never find yourself in this position, in case you do, “…when Oprah Winfrey is suggesting you may have overextended yourself, you need to examine your f***ing life."